You get in these little mini marriages and then you have little mini divorces when you're unsatisfied with this person in your life. And you're unsatisfied because that's not the person that you're supposed to be with. I'm not saying that when you're married that you're going to be completely satisfied your entire marriage but you're going to have that foundation of love and knowing that you're supposed to be with each other.
She continues, "So that's what God said. He said, 'Girls, your hearts were never made to be broken so keep them whole and keep them pure for when it is time for you to get married. And yes, you're going to get persecution and yes, people will make fun of you.
People make fun of us girls all the time! And you know, it's hard. And it's embarrassing. And it's hard that they don't 'get you'. But you know what?
It's okay for people not to get you. It's okay not to be popular in areas sometimes. We were doing this before we were even in a band. So we were uncool and we didn't pay any attention! There is some confusion as I have to translate the word into American for them. Never even held a guy's hand except dad! So, just in case you were wondering, the answer to the above question - how do you date a BarlowGirl is you make friends and hang out with them in a crowd of friends.
And then you decide which one of them you like! After all, there is a choice of three! So then you have to go and talk to their dad. But the very best way is to make friends with a BarlowGirl.
Becca shares, "We always have said, we want to marry our best friend. The emphasis is on friendship for the girls. Friendship is so, so important. So that is our goal; friendship first.
And then if God desires anything else then it'll move forward. We're nearly at the end of our chat but they've got one last thing to confess. I like this one. Instead of doing the whole dressing up for a date, pretending thing, we'll say, 'You know what? Why don't you come out? A group of us are going out to a movie tonight.
A group of us are going out to dinner'. You watch them interact with guys. You watch them interact with girls. Becca warms to the subject and adds, "And your mom. You see how they treat your mom and how they treat your dad. It's like, I know you a lot better than I would have if we'd done this exclusive 'I'm pretending-you're pretending' relationship and then I find out these things about you six months down the road and I start to hate it.
You see it right away. Things come up in a friendship and a group setting that you would never see because it's comfortable. Mission Bells has been constantly playing. I just buy my favorite songs on iTunes. One of them is Rain Down from Delirious?. I had that on repeat today. There is a new song we do in concert. HillSongs wrote it. Becca: I think we can say we learned it the hard way.
Over the last four years we did hit the road pretty hard. We were traveling a lot. But we definitely did have to learn to seek a balance in our lives in that area. Alyssa: We really felt God challenge us in our life just to say, Yes, the world says that you have to date around. And we really felt God challenging us to say, Girls, would you be willing to give me your single years?
Would you be willing to set aside dating a bunch of different people right now to just give your heart to a bunch of different people? Would you be willing to find out what true love is? In the long run, I want to be a good mother.
I want to be a good wife. I want to honor him with my heart. I want to honor him by guarding myself as if we were married now. Our brother and his wife had never dated other people, ended up becoming good friends in college. They have three beautiful children. You are commenting using your Google account. You are commenting using your Twitter account.
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