I have a very very cute friend and he knows that I'm bisexual and we have been kicking it for about a year now. Going out, movies, dinner things that friends do but on a much enhanced level.
I have never seen this friend with a girl or women and the one time I did he wouldn't respond to her advances while I was there. I don't want to ruin this friendship by asking questions about his sexuality, but we agreed to asking each other any question we want and it is not to change our friendship. Is this a good idea to move forward with wanting to see what could come out of this or should I leave it alone and just keep things the way they are?
This guy is hot and he is sending all the signals that he wants me to ask but I don't know how. Sincerely, Looking for help! Welcome to EC! Two options here. One - words. Don't ask if you can fool around with him.
In doing so, we had a wonderful time and maintained our friendship. We talked it out before, during and after and decided that adding a physical element to our relationship would be okay which is what I worried about the most. Error: API requests are being delayed for this account. New posts will not be retrieved.
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The Back Story… I met this guy back in Spanish class in college and we instantly hit it off as friends. Fast Forward… We lost touch a little bit after graduation, but once we got over that initial hump , our friendship went right back to where it once was. And Then… It had been about a year since we last had the chance to hang out in person. Instagram post But trust me, if you WANT to have sex with a guy, in any case, your not tottaly straight.
Fortris is definitely right. Riser and delirium Oh thank god someone mentioned the Kinsey scale. But you two beat me to it ;- Here is a link for your reading pleasure. The Kinsey Scale. And also everyone should remember that you can move up and down the scale at different times in your life. I have found my self hovering around the 5 and 6 for most of my life. Uninterestingly enough, no. And for the most part guy on guy affection is seen as a threat. Noon: While that may be true at least in part, I think it has to do with the differences in sexuality of men and women that are inherent at birth.
I mean I generally like to think that I am less affected by society than others and I enjoy being different but the thought of sharing a sexual experience with another male is just unbearable to me. I accept that others may be attracted to it and thats great. No, I would go exactly nowhere down that path. I can appreciate the aesthetic beauty of a male body but it does not get me excited. Straight men have a very difficult time relating to that, and homophobes are afraid or shocked or whatever.
I speak from experience having worked with several homophobic volunteers in a human sexuality panel, only one out of the 35 homophobic men and women questioned had personal conflicts in their own sexuality, most had religious foundations. Nathan used to be homophobic. He was always afraid of the guy hitting on him. Three of my now absolutely closest guy friends only befriended me because nate was friends with me and they wanted to date him. Nate is a very very very attractive ballerino and is quite colorful and flamboyant….
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